From Military.com:
“A US Veteran Died at a
Nursing Home, Abandoned. Hundreds of Strangers Came to Say Goodbye”
(Former U.S. Marine Gerry Brooks
is laid to rest Thursday, June 20, 2024 at the Maine Veterans Memorial Cemetery
in Augusta, Maine.)
Former U.S. Marine Gerry Brooks
died alone at a nursing home in Maine, abandoned and all but forgotten. Then
the funeral home posted a notice asking if anyone would serve as a pallbearer
or simply attend his burial. Within minutes, it was turning away volunteers to
carry his casket. A bagpiper came forward to play at the service. A pilot
offered to perform a flyover. Military groups across the state pledged a proper
sendoff. Hundreds of people who knew nothing about the 86-year-old beyond his
name showed up on a sweltering afternoon and gave Brooks a final salute with
full military honors Thursday at the Maine Veterans' Memorial Cemetery in
Augusta.
Patriot Guard Riders on
motorcycles escorted his hearse on the 40-mile route from the funeral home in
Belfast, Maine, to the cemetery. Members of the Veterans of Foreign Wars paid
tribute with a 21-gun salute. Volunteers held American flags alongside the
casket while a crane hoisted a huge flag above the cemetery entrance. “It’s an
honor for us to be able to do this,” said Jim Roberts, commander of the VFW
post in Belfast. “There’s so much negativity in the world. This is something
people can feel good about and rally around. It’s just absolutely wonderful.” He
said the VFW is called a couple times a year about a deceased veteran with no
family or with one that isn’t willing to handle the funeral arrangements. But
“we will always be there." Like other veterans helping out Thursday, he
hadn't known Brooks. So many groups volunteered to take part in paying tribute
that there wasn’t enough space to fit them into the 20-minute burial service,
said Katie Riposta, the funeral director who put out the call for help last
week. “It renews your faith in humanity,” she said.
More than 8 million of the U.S.
veterans living are 65 or older, almost half the veteran population. They are
overwhelmingly men. That's according to a U.S. Census Bureau report last year.
As this generation dies, it said, their collective memory of wartime
experiences "will pass into history."
Much about Brooks' life is
unknown. He was widowed and had lived in Augusta before he died on May 18, less
than a week after entering a nursing home, Riposta said. A cause of death was
not released. The funeral home and authorities were able to reach his next of
kin, but no one was willing to come forward or take responsibility for his
body, she said. “It sounds like he was a good person, but I know nothing about
his life,” Riposta said, noting that after Brooks' death, a woman contacted the
funeral home to say he had once taken her in when she had no other place to go,
with no details. “It doesn’t matter if he served one day or made the military
his career," she said. "He still deserves to be respected and not
alone.”
The memorial book posted online
by Direct Cremation of Maine, which helped to arrange the burial, offered no
clues. An hour before his funeral, three people had signed it. It seemed they
hadn't met him, either. “Sir,” one began, and ended with “Semper Fi.” The two
others, a couple, thanked Brooks for his service. “We all deserve the love
kindness and respect when we are called home. I hope that you lived a full
beautiful life of Love, Kindness, Dreams and Hope,” they wrote. They added:
“Thank you to all those who will make this gentleman’s service a proper, well
deserved good bye.” Linda Laweryson, who served in the Marines, said this will
be the second funeral in little over a year that she has attended for a veteran
who died alone. Everyone deserves to die with dignity and be buried with
dignity, she said. Lawyerson said she planned to read a poem during the
graveside service written by a combat Marine who reflects on the spot where
Marines graduate from boot camp. “I walked the old parade ground, but I was not
alone," the poem reads. "I walked the old parade ground and knew that
I was home.”
^ No Veteran, Soldier, Airmen/Airwomen
or Sailor should ever die or be buried alone. ^
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